The decision to feel good ultimately means stopping feeling bad
While it may sound harsh, the reality is that it’s as straightforward as that.
There isn't another option.
Perhaps the society we have created and nurtured has taught us to wait for our circumstances to change in order to be happy. In fact, a lot of us aren't even aware that choosing to feel bad is a choice we've made.
We say things like, "I'll feel wonderful when I get the all-clear from the doctor," or "I'll feel good when the money is in the bank."
By doing this, we actively prioritize the result over the overall experience and what it can teach us. We've got it all wrong!
We’ve come to believe that in order to achieve our goals, we need to have all our ducks in a row
However, the reality is that once you change your mindset and focus on what you want to attract, things will start to come to you with more ease!
Making ourselves the top priority in our own lives means putting our overall physical and mental wellbeing first. Many people cling to the constricting notion that they are unworthy of happiness and fulfillment.
Joy is an afterthought, while struggle becomes a routine. Here, is where you need to adopt a whole different perspective.
You aren't in tune with the truth of who you are if you believe that you aren't deserving of feeling good. We each possess the benevolent force of the Universe, the tranquilly of spirit, and the grace of God.
However, we cannot be delivered from our sense of unworthiness by a power outside of ourselves. We can begin to realign with the conviction that we are deserving of feeling wonderful if we genuinely realize that we embody the power of love.
God is felt when we, His children, also feel good.
That is to say, we are reminded of God within us when we experience joy. Being a attractor requires first accepting our own greatness.
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Use these techniques to support your conviction that you are worthy and that good things will come to you easily when you live this reality
Feeling nice is beneficial in and of itself! These are important lessons learned from the events co-hosted with Deepak Chopra and Eckhart Tolle in 2016.
When you're joyful for any given reason, as Deepak once said, you're still miserable because that reason could be taken away from you tomorrow, so never take anything for granted.
We are reminded of these same words every time we believe and understand what we need. In truth, doing this weakens our faith in the Universe and in the way things are set up for us. Making an active choice to feel good is easier than we can imagine.
Your choice to feel good has been patiently awaited by the Universe, and it is especially necessary during your lowest points. Even when we fight against it, the universe is directing us.
When we let go of our resistance, a wave of love and support pours in. It's critical to acknowledge this. This is not the so-called practice of "fake it till you make it." The Universe wants you to feel joyful and will direct you in the direction of your needs and wants.
Remember that happiness is your birthright because you are one with the universal energy of love.
References:
1. Super Attractor - Methods For Manifesting a Life Beyond Your Wildest Dreams - Gabrielle Bernstein 2019